Dustin Koy - Men looking for women California

Below I have my descriptions.

Vanilla: I'm studying to be in cybersecurity. Army vet. Extremely loyal. I look for and value all the traits that I have some of which include honesty, intelligence, ability to laugh and have fun, and I'm a planner. I really enjoy cuddling.

Kinky: I'm a Dom. I have a FetLife account if you want to know more about it just ask. I'm a sensualist.

I'm looking for a woman who can be my girlfriend and my sub. A woman who I can see myself being with long term. She must be loyal, honest, kind, and flirty. Ideally she wouldn't be afraid of going outside and enjoying the outdoors. Ideally she would have some attraction to, if not know she enjoys, BDSM. Must have career goals and in public be somewhat independent. Ideally in a relationship setting and in private she would be somewhat dependent on me to varying degrees in all questions. Must be willing to actually talk on the phone and meet up in person for a date.